Sunday, December 27, 2015

End of Year 2015

I usually do some form of one of these year in review posts every year, and this time I thought I'd borrow from A'Dell. So thanks, A'Dell!

1. What did you do in 2015 that you’d never done before?
I sent my youngest to kindergarten. I got addicted to audiobooks. I went to a women in business conference and found it was not a bunch of stupid hooey. Went to see a movie by myself.

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
Here is last year's - it doesn't appear I made any - so success! (again!) I do have a complex resolution system this year that I'll outline in a different post. So yes. This year, there will be resolutions.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
A couple friends had babies, but I didn't visit any babies in the hospital this year.

4. Did anyone close to you die?
C's Nana passed this year. We hadn't been close to her in a long time but we used to be very close. Also Eli passed, and that was and continues to be completely traumatic. Babies should never be allowed to die.

5. What countries did you visit?
Just the good ol' US of A, again. One day, man. 

6. What would you like to have in 2016 that you didn’t have in 2015?
I'd really like to get moving on a new house and selling this one (ideally I'd like someone to do it for me). 

7. What dates from 2015 will be etched upon your memory, and why?


August 1, 2015 - Francine joined our family. 
August 26, 2015 - Henry's first day of kindergarten
October 20, 2015 - I successfully got myself off all my anxiety meds 

8. What was your biggest achievement of this year?
I find that every year that I get all the way through it is a big acheivement. I just looked at last year's and survival was the big acheivement last year too. Must be the 

9. What was your biggest failure?
I honestly can't think of any major failure.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Nope, no major illnesses or barftastic times or injuries. I'm pretty healthy.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
My duvet. New deck furniture.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
It's been a roller coaster this year, but I'd say that both my kids at one time or another would be on that list - other times they are on the list below but I'm refusing to put them there.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Oh, I'm going to have to go with A'Dell's answer and say my mailman is high up there. My mail never ends up in my mailbox on time.

14. Where did most of your money go?
Kids, Bills, Disney, Amazon. So much to Amazon.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
The Seattle Blathering in April, NYC girls' trip in June, NYC with Sarah in August, DC with the family in October, Delaware to visit my BFF in November. Lots of trips. I love trips.

16. What song will always remind you of 2014?
Oddly, Christmas songs and Taylor Swift are still there - but now it's Spencer who is obsessed w/ Taylor Swift. Also Best Day of My life and Fight Song. My kids sing these songs ad nauseum.

17. Compared to this time last year: a) better hair or worse hair? b) more organized or less organized? (This question used to be happy/sad, thin/fat, rich/poor, and I think those are boring so I changed it this year.)
I chopped all my hair off in November and I haven't decided if it's better or not. It's hair, it grows back, right? Or maybe I need to cut it all off in a super short pixie. Who knows, it might happen.

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Exercise.

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Yelling - this is always my answer, unfortunately.

20. How did you spend Christmas?
We had all the grandparents over for breakfast and presents and then spent the afternoon/early evening at my inlaws' house.

21. What was your favorite TV program?
Do Rays games count? I haven't watched television in over a year and I'm no good at watching new shows on Netflix or Prime or anything. So my answers are the same as usual - Veronica Mars, Gilmore Girls, Buffy, Bones. I'm rewatching Criminal Minds right now ...

21a. (New question!) Tell us about your favorite podcasts.
I listened to Serial last year but I don't as a rule listen to podcasts. I think that will change this year though. I am on a mission.

22. What was the best thing you learned?
I went on a tangent learning about Charles Lindbergh last week. It was really interesting.

23. What was the best book you read?
I read a few really fun and enjoyable series, like Etiquette and Espionage by Gail Carringer (and really her other two series Prudence and Soulless), Red Rising by Pierce Brown, Shadow and Bone by Leigh Barduga, the Armand Gamache series by Louise Penny (audiobook, the narrator was just fantastic), Throne of Glass by Sarah J Maas, and every Lindsay Buroker book I read (God, I love her). I also listened to the audiobook of The Martian and that was delightful.

25. What was your greatest food discovery?
toasted brioche with fresh ricotta (or TJ's whole milk ricotta) and marmalade. Try it. 

26. What did you want and get?
I wanted a piece of jewelry with my kids' names on it, and I got it (okay, I bought it myself). I wanted and got some Wick Habit candles (although they are pretty much gone already so I need to reorder). 

27. What did you want and not get?
I can't think of anything that I didn't get. World Peace.

28. What was your favorite film of 2015?
Crud, what came out? I saw The Intern and that was amusing. Oh! Pitch Perfect 2! That was wonderful. If I add in Minions we've now covered every movie I've seen this year. Oops.

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I was 35 this year. I can't remember what I did though it looks like we went to disney the day before. I do remember having a day date with C for our joint birthdays and we went the the Dali Museum.



30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?


31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept of 2015?
I finally embraced leggings as pants. I'm sorry.

32. What kept you sane?
My pocket friends, always.

33. What political issue stirred you the most?
the Trump. God, such an ass.

34. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2015.
Be compassionate to yourself and it will spread.

36. Show us one of your favorite photos from the year. 
I couldn't pick one.





Wednesday, December 16, 2015

What I read September, October, November

In 2015 I read 155 books. I know that sound like a lot, but really it didn't FEEL like a lot. I was going through a lot of depressive/anxiety issues and escapism was high on my list. This year I watched a lot of tv (abnormal, although albeit a lot that I had already seen) and got off to a slow start. I've certainly been reading a lot though, even though I didn't realize. I count novellas as numbers as well because I also have 500page books in there too. But anyhow. I don't need to justify my lists to anyone now do I? I won't hit 155 again this year but I'll be much closer than I thought I'd be.

Here's September through November:

September

reread

new:
98. The Royal We - Heather Cocks
99. PS I Still Love You - Jenny Han
100. Axbridge - Sasha L Miller
101. A Rule Against Murder - Louise Penny
102. Magic Shifts - Iliona Andrews
103. The Brutal Telling - Louise Penny
104. A Trick of the Light - Louise Penny
105. The Errant Prince - Sasha L Miller
106. Bury Your Dead - Louise Penny

October

reread
3. I am Number Four - Pittacus Lore
4. What Alice Forgot - Liane Moriarty

new: 
107. Heroes are my Weakness - Susan Elizabeth Phillips
108. The Power of Six - Pittacus Lore
108. The Rise of Nine - Pittacus Lore
110. The Fall of Five - Pittacus Lore
111. The Revenge of Seven - Pittacus Lore
112. Funny Girl - Nick Hornby
113. Walk on Earth a Stranger - Rae Carson expired before finishing, waiting for it again to finish
114. The Beautiful Mystery - Louise Penny
115. The Nightingale - Kristin Hannah
116. The Scorpion Rules - Erin Bow

November

reread:

new:
117. The Appearance of Annue van Sinderin - Katherine Howe abandoned
118. How the Light Gets In - Louise Penny
119. The Long Way Home - Louise Penny
120. Carry On - Rainbow Rowell
121. Queen of Shadows - Sarah J Maas
122. The Burning Sky - Sherry Thomas
123. Her - Harriet Lane
124. The Assassin and the Pirate Lord - Sarah J. Maas
125. Luckiest Girl Alive - Jessica Knoll
126. The Assassin and the Desert - Sarah J. Maas
127. The Assassin and the Underworld - Sarah J. Maas
128. The Assassin and the Empire - Sarah J. Maas
129. Under the Ice Blades - Lindsay Buroker
130. Raptor - Lindsay Buroker

Monday, December 14, 2015

Adventing

Apparently 7 days in a row is too much for me on the blogging front and then I need a month to recover, eh? Anyhow. Back now. I have a lot to say, actually, but for now I’ll amuse myself talking about our Advent Calendar.

We did a few of the same things we always do (Christmas movie watching FTW) and a few new things. There have been a few Christmas festival busts (I refused to even look for a parking space on Saturday when the line to get into one was wrapped around a shopping center 30 minutes after it opened) but there have been a couple of winners.

Family board game nights-


Even though this isn’t intrinsically Christmas-y, the kids have adored these nights. I’m going to try to keep it up every couple of weeks post-Christmas, but for the season I was able to fit two of these nights onto the calendar and they were a big hit. Just an hour of family time. Score.

One of the Christmas festivals we went to was kind of a dud bc there were a ton of people and not much to do, but the kids played in snow (after standing in line) and we adults thought it was lame but they had a good time.

Have a Christmas treat-

This is one of my filler activities when I know we won’t have much time. Have a treat! See also, have hot chocolate (although the little one doesn’t like hot anything so he gets ice cubes in his hot chocolate). We also gave up on “make Christmas cookies” this year, and inserted “have Christmas cookies” that day too. Win.

Ice skating –


This was NOT on our list, but we bailed on that festival above with the giant line to get in and went to the mall for Christmas shopping. We got no shopping done, but spur of the moment I let S ice skate for the first time and he loved it so very much that I think it will be on future calendars.

Color Reindeer masks –

I usually pick up a self-contained craft or two at Joann’s and hand them over. This was the first day on the calendar this year, and they were $1. Color cheap wood masks. Happiness abound.

Decorate a gingerbread tree - 


I nixed the gingerbread house this year and bought a mass produced gingerbread tree kit and it was excellent forethought. There's no balancing of parts so we could just decorate star pieces and then stack, decorate the outside and done! Fun and not at all frustrating. It isn't much to look at, but really what is? This will be our centerpiece for Christmas breakfast.

 The Osborne Family Spectacle of Lights – 


This was not an advent activity but it was important for us for Christmassing. We are dropping our Disney passes this spring so this will be the last everything we do (also it's the last year for the Osborne lights!). We went Thanksgiving weekend but I’m hoping to fit it in at least one more time.

We still have a lot to do, and honestly I think this is the biggest week for us. I’m tired. But we have the annual Rockapella Christmas concert, which I’m jazzed about, and the Night in Bethlehem event with friends. Saturday we’re going to spend the day at Epcot and see the candlelight processional (and we have reservations to eat at Garden Grill, which the kids have asked for three years to eat at). Tonight we are making presents for teachers (phoning it in this year, I’m having the kids make cards).


So that’s our adventing. Anything we should add for next year?